Until this weekend, this looked like a weed. And every weekend since Spring, I thought about pulling it. Boy am I glad I didn't. Look how beautiful it is. Unbeknownst to me, it was designed to be beautiful. It was created to be a thing a beauty. To see that, patience was required. Long afterContinue reading "Everything is Made Beautiful for it’s Own Time"

Imagine a place where nobody throws stones. Where everything said or done is to build up, not break down. To help, not hurt. To support, not accuse. Where there is no gossip. No making fun of others. No harmful words that cut like a knife. Where there's no pointing fingers. No getting even. No eyeContinue reading "Throwing Stones"

One of the keys to wolves' survival is how they work as a pack to hunt and catch prey, feed their pups, and protect their territory. The pack protects the den by chasing away potential predators. The system works simply because there is trust among the members of the pack. Trust enables them to work in concert to serve their mutual interests.Continue reading "The Wolf Who Cried Human"

Have you ever wondered why dogs are able to love unconditionally? Why it comes so natural to them? How they are able to quickly put the past behind and live in the present? They understand their purpose is to love you. They are singularly focused on that. Period. Bad things can happen, but they justContinue reading "Unconditional Love"

I'm an ex-football player and coach. My position was running back. What's the most important attribute of a good running back? Their eyes. Their vision. How they see the field, i.e. what's developing in front of them, which enables them to read and react. As with being a good running back, being a good personContinue reading "More Eyes & Ears, Less Mouth"

Do you have a teachable spirit? Are you capable of being taught? Are you secure enough to admit you don't know something? Or, do you think and act like you know it all? Do you always have to be right? If you sit back and reflect on moments of relational peace and strife, you'll probablyContinue reading "Pride Leads to Arguments"

We're always comparing. There are daily battles in our minds over stuff we want versus stuff we have. Things that others possess, but we don't. The greater success someone else has that should be ours. On one side is envy.  The other gratitude. What wins your battles? You're in control. What determines the outcomes isContinue reading "Envy vs. Gratitude"

Have you ever said to yourself, "I wish I had that car, that house, that job, that position, that type of family, type of marriage, or type of relationship?" It's natural to desire a better quality of life. If you don't have the big things in life you want, then have you examined how youContinue reading "Apprenticeship"

I'm a big fan of Cesar Millan, the Dog Whispirer. If you are too, then you know all about calm, assertive energy. A goal of mine is to master being calm, assertive. When I'm in that state, I control the mood of my environment. It is peaceful. If you ever want to know what energyContinue reading "Calm, Assertive Energy"

Life is pretty simple when you think about it. We tend to make it complex. It's about our choices. We choose to "do" or "do not". It's a string of 1's and 0's. In general, a binary system is any system that allows only two choices. Life is a binary system. The string of 1's andContinue reading "Life is a Binary System"