Who Will I Thank and Serve Today?

I’m about to say something counter-cultural. Humans are not inherently good. We enter this world with a natural tendency to be selfish and self-centered. We don’t want to be subordinate to anyone else, and we don’t like the feeling of submission. We don’t want to serve others and ultimately desire final authority over ourselves. WeContinueContinue reading “Who Will I Thank and Serve Today?”

Christian Life Coaching: It’s Not About Me

Think about what life would be like if more of us truly believed and acted like “it’s not about me.” That’s the motive behind Christian life coaching. “It’s not about me.” Such a simple statement, yet so hard to live out. It seems like the world is wired against it … completely backwards, 180 degreesContinueContinue reading “Christian Life Coaching: It’s Not About Me”

Transform My Career, Transform My Life

Finding the right answers to the tough questions, “How do I transform my career? How do I transform my life?” Proskartereó (Greek): to attend constantlyPart of Speech: VerbPhonetic Spelling: (pros-kar-ter-eh’-o)Definition: A steadfast and single-minded faithfulness to a person, cause or belief, demonstrated by continued loyalty and support, in order maintain a certain course of action.Usage: I persist, persevere in,ContinueContinue reading “Transform My Career, Transform My Life”

Let’s Play Make-Believe

Everyone struggles with the emotion of fear. Fear of failure. Fear of rejection. Fear of death. While some fears birth heros as a result of their actions to a threat, most fears handicap people. Fear and courage are polar opposites. Both are states of mind. Courage enables a person to face difficulty, danger, pain, etc.ContinueContinue reading “Let’s Play Make-Believe”

Train for Significance

Our most innate need is to feel significant, to find purpose and meaning in our human existence. We want something to survive us. While many attempt to find significance by gratifying their own ambitions, I argue that significance is not possible unless what we do contributes to the welfare of others. There’s a test forContinueContinue reading “Train for Significance”

Selfish Panic vs. Neighborly Resilience

I am a student of habit change, and there are two indisputable facts about habits: You can’t break a habit. You can only replace it with another habit.Habits provide short-term rewards and long-term outcomes, for better or worse. A habit is simply a behavior that is repeated because it generates an immediate reward. It isContinueContinue reading “Selfish Panic vs. Neighborly Resilience”